Friendship

A real friend is the one who is ready to sacrifice his friendship with others to make his other two friends together and make many happy in spite of him losing them all :-(:-(

Friendship has no value if your friend gets happiness when he/she avoids you. It hurts a lot when you come to know this:-(


Saturday, September 11, 2010

Life a very Deadly interesting thing

A wise man said that "When you get little you want more,when you get more you desire even more,but when you lose it, you realise little was enough". This is how a life goes on.The one satisfied a little will be like that only.So they don't like to face the problems in the life so they pray that in my life no problems should come but remember one thing that, "Smooth roads never makes good driver, Silent seas never makes a good sailor, Clear sky never makes a good pilot, Problem free life never makes a succesful person". So, we will come to know that we should face problems but now the thing is how to face the problems here the mind can think in two ways probably one is that the problem is easy,I can solve it another is the problem is easy how to solve it .The first kind of person will be able to solve because only sometimes but sometime he will make a fault because he thinks it is easy. So the second person will take tension so that how to solve it, its very difficult.So,we should think the problem is difficult after then we should not go to solve because sometimes we make mistake and our life will be in danger. We know that "Every problem will have a solution ,without a solution a problem will not exist".So,we should try to make the problem easy then solving is still much easier.Easy means that time we should not think of making it too easy just as a slight work may make our problem little easy from before then slowly by doing it little easy we will solve the problem without knowing.This way we make our lives good and happy. There is a saying that "If you stand for any reason,be prepared to stand alone like a tree.If you fall on the ground,fall as a seed that grows back and will fight again".This is the thing that also says that trying is better then to take up the defeat.If you try many times then surely you will be able to achieve it once or the other time. Worrying does not solve any trouble.It takes away today's peace.So,don't worry for anything and keep your life moving with smile because it avoids at least today's problem.So we should not worry. But the important thing is how does these problems comes? It does not give any clue.But one of the reason may be our desires.So we should not desire more then our limits because desires will be there with all so.Life can be happier and stressless if we remember one simple thought "We can't have all the things we desire but god will give us all the things we deserve".

Life is a wonderful thing to talk about, or to read in the history but it is terrible when one has to live it. If you love life then surely life will love you back. You need not wait for reply from the life (just kidding). As i think  all hate to live when they get problems,but actually those problems are the things which helps us to go further    in the life. When problems comes we should not run away from it instead take it as something funny and try to move along with it. Many humans in the world think that they have the most number of problems in the life whereas others may be his friend, relative etc has no problem at all. Actually he should think that even the guy/gal whom he thinks is happy thinks the same about him if he has not shared his problem about himself. Sharing our problems with our dear ones reduces our grief within ourselves. But be sure that the person you share your problem with should not create a problem again instead he should be the one to encourage you. You should not expect help from him just expect him/her to listen about it. There will be some person around you may not be your best friend but someone who u know and you think he may help you to solve share your problem with him as said don't expect him to do instead you should do it. If he solves your problem then you will surely face the same problem in future when he will not be there along with you. If he solves it means it will be the as some humans hatching a egg of some bird before the bird / butterfly comes out within itself. The person may help the bird/butterfly to come out from the egg but God has kept it as a challenge for the bird. If it breaks the egg itself and come outside means its potential for the rest of the problems which it faces but if a person breaks and help it at the first instance then the bird/ butterfly will not be able to fly. Whether the person can help the bird to fly?? i don't think so. So only you solve your problems yourself so that you can lead your life in a smooth way.

Actually whatever problems we are talking about is not a problem but its like a task given to us in the game of life. Clearing one task takes us to next level. We can't expect our life to be same as others. A poor guy thinks the rich guy don't have any problem but actually he will be also have his own limitation. Just think about healthy man who don't have money to eat some costly sweets and a rich man who has diabetics again can't eat the sweet. The poor man thinks he has money he can eat but the rich man thinks if i was healthy like him then i could have ate the sweets. Likewise many situations give different types of lessons. We should learn lessons from each instance of life. Every situation whether it is a happy situation or it may be sad one we will have something to learn from it. Good or bad thing but have to learn something about life from it. Those who analyse each situation and learn from it, will lead a smooth life than the one who just ignores it after it is solved. Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.

Some people will have the life going in their way. Luck keeps on moving them in the way of success but this success won't keep them in the same way for long time whereas the success obtained by the hard work will keep it permanent. But some exceptions in both the cases are existing. So we can't conclude how our lives get turned. There will be some situation in your life where you need to take the decisions. This decisions change your life. The thing now is the right and wrong decisions. The decision you take should not be forceful. You need to take the decisions with the confidence of winning from it. To achieve something sometimes you will have to take the risk. Some decision may be bad you will have to lose your comforts but the future may be more comfortable than the present. So you will have to visualize the future so that the life becomes interesting to yourself than to the others. 

You may have heard of many suicide cases and all. It's regularly happening in our surroundings. Some die because they have more problem. But there is a solution for every problem. Sometimes the questions are complicated and the answers are simple. There are many people with greater problem than yours. There are people who have stood against it n fought and is living happily. See some people who are suffering from diseases and they know they are dying in few days. Imagine their situation if they want to live also they can't leave whereas some people are wasting their lives for just a small reason. They don't know the value of the life what they have got for sure. Hence seriously suicide or trying to end our life is not the solution for any of the problem. The fear of death follows from the fear of life. A man who lives fully is prepared to die at any time. You have got the life, live it to the full. Enjoy each and every moment of the life. It will surely be nice. Enjoy the problems surely you will enjoy your life.

Actually you don't know when you will die. A person who have no disease who is thinking only of future and stops living his life at present don't know till when he will be alive. Anytime accidents may come so no need of only focusing about the future just enjoy your life by keeping future in your mind. Because if you don't think about the future and only think about the present then if you live your future should not be miserable. Balance your life. Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance, you must keep moving. You know what you have to do your life better than anyone so better you think and you decide how you have to lead your life so that the life has got its meaning.You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough. Be a person whom people talks good about him after his death. Your name should be alive after your death in the good way. I think it is the time where your life has got the meaning. So, Life is not deadly but its a combination of sweet and sour. 


“Life is an opportunity, benefit from it.
Life is beauty, admire it.
Life is a dream, realize it.
Life is a challenge, meet it.
Life is a duty, complete it.
Life is a game, play it.
Life is a promise, fulfill it.
Life is sorrow, overcome it.
Life is a song, sing it.
Life is a struggle, accept it.
Life is a tragedy, confront it.
Life is an adventure, dare it.
Life is luck, make it.
Life is too precious, do not destroy it.
Life is life, fight for it.”
                                                  
                                                            ― Mother Teresa


Here its given everything about the life. You just need to go along with it. Life is to be enjoyed, not endured.

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