Life a very Deadly interesting thing

A wise man said that "When you get little you want more,when you get more you desire even more,but when you lose it, you realise little was enough". This is how a life goes on.The one satisfied a little will be like that only.So they don't like to face the problems in the life so they pray that in my life no problems should come but remember one thing that, "Smooth roads never makes good driver, Silent seas never makes a good sailor, Clear sky never makes a good pilot, Problem free life never makes a succesful person". So, we will come to know that we should face problems but now the thing is how to face the problems here the mind can think in two ways probably one is that the problem is easy,I can solve it another is the problem is easy how to solve it .The first kind of person will be able to solve because only sometimes but sometime he will make a fault because he thinks it is easy. So the second person will take tension so that how to solve it, its very difficult.So,we should think the problem is difficult after then we should not go to solve because sometimes we make mistake and our life will be in danger. We know that "Every problem will have a solution ,without a solution a problem will not exist".So,we should try to make the problem easy then solving is still much easier.Easy means that time we should not think of making it too easy just as a slight work may make our problem little easy from before then slowly by doing it little easy we will solve the problem without knowing.This way we make our lives good and happy. There is a saying that "If you stand for any reason,be prepared to stand alone like a tree.If you fall on the ground,fall as a seed that grows back and will fight again".This is the thing that also says that trying is better then to take up the defeat.If you try many times then surely you will be able to achieve it once or the other time. Worrying does not solve any trouble.It takes away today's peace.So,don't worry for anything and keep your life moving with smile because it avoids at least today's problem.So we should not worry. But the important thing is how does these problems comes? It does not give any clue.But one of the reason may be our desires.So we should not desire more then our limits because desires will be there with all so.Life can be happier and stressless if we remember one simple thought "We can't have all the things we desire but god will give us all the things we deserve".

Life is a wonderful thing to talk about, or to read in the history but it is terrible when one has to live it. If you love life then surely life will love you back. You need not wait for reply from the life (just kidding). As i think  all hate to live when they get problems,but actually those problems are the things which helps us to go further    in the life. When problems comes we should not run away from it instead take it as something funny and try to move along with it. Many humans in the world think that they have the most number of problems in the life whereas others may be his friend, relative etc has no problem at all. Actually he should think that even the guy/gal whom he thinks is happy thinks the same about him if he has not shared his problem about himself. Sharing our problems with our dear ones reduces our grief within ourselves. But be sure that the person you share your problem with should not create a problem again instead he should be the one to encourage you. You should not expect help from him just expect him/her to listen about it. There will be some person around you may not be your best friend but someone who u know and you think he may help you to solve share your problem with him as said don't expect him to do instead you should do it. If he solves your problem then you will surely face the same problem in future when he will not be there along with you. If he solves it means it will be the as some humans hatching a egg of some bird before the bird / butterfly comes out within itself. The person may help the bird/butterfly to come out from the egg but God has kept it as a challenge for the bird. If it breaks the egg itself and come outside means its potential for the rest of the problems which it faces but if a person breaks and help it at the first instance then the bird/ butterfly will not be able to fly. Whether the person can help the bird to fly?? i don't think so. So only you solve your problems yourself so that you can lead your life in a smooth way.

Actually whatever problems we are talking about is not a problem but its like a task given to us in the game of life. Clearing one task takes us to next level. We can't expect our life to be same as others. A poor guy thinks the rich guy don't have any problem but actually he will be also have his own limitation. Just think about healthy man who don't have money to eat some costly sweets and a rich man who has diabetics again can't eat the sweet. The poor man thinks he has money he can eat but the rich man thinks if i was healthy like him then i could have ate the sweets. Likewise many situations give different types of lessons. We should learn lessons from each instance of life. Every situation whether it is a happy situation or it may be sad one we will have something to learn from it. Good or bad thing but have to learn something about life from it. Those who analyse each situation and learn from it, will lead a smooth life than the one who just ignores it after it is solved. Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.

Some people will have the life going in their way. Luck keeps on moving them in the way of success but this success won't keep them in the same way for long time whereas the success obtained by the hard work will keep it permanent. But some exceptions in both the cases are existing. So we can't conclude how our lives get turned. There will be some situation in your life where you need to take the decisions. This decisions change your life. The thing now is the right and wrong decisions. The decision you take should not be forceful. You need to take the decisions with the confidence of winning from it. To achieve something sometimes you will have to take the risk. Some decision may be bad you will have to lose your comforts but the future may be more comfortable than the present. So you will have to visualize the future so that the life becomes interesting to yourself than to the others. 

You may have heard of many suicide cases and all. It's regularly happening in our surroundings. Some die because they have more problem. But there is a solution for every problem. Sometimes the questions are complicated and the answers are simple. There are many people with greater problem than yours. There are people who have stood against it n fought and is living happily. See some people who are suffering from diseases and they know they are dying in few days. Imagine their situation if they want to live also they can't leave whereas some people are wasting their lives for just a small reason. They don't know the value of the life what they have got for sure. Hence seriously suicide or trying to end our life is not the solution for any of the problem. The fear of death follows from the fear of life. A man who lives fully is prepared to die at any time. You have got the life, live it to the full. Enjoy each and every moment of the life. It will surely be nice. Enjoy the problems surely you will enjoy your life.

Actually you don't know when you will die. A person who have no disease who is thinking only of future and stops living his life at present don't know till when he will be alive. Anytime accidents may come so no need of only focusing about the future just enjoy your life by keeping future in your mind. Because if you don't think about the future and only think about the present then if you live your future should not be miserable. Balance your life. Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance, you must keep moving. You know what you have to do your life better than anyone so better you think and you decide how you have to lead your life so that the life has got its meaning.You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough. Be a person whom people talks good about him after his death. Your name should be alive after your death in the good way. I think it is the time where your life has got the meaning. So, Life is not deadly but its a combination of sweet and sour. 

“Life is an opportunity, benefit from it.

Life is beauty, admire it.

Life is a dream, realize it.
Life is a challenge, meet it.
Life is a duty, complete it.
Life is a game, play it.
Life is a promise, fulfill it.
Life is sorrow, overcome it.
Life is a song, sing it.
Life is a struggle, accept it.
Life is a tragedy, confront it.
Life is an adventure, dare it.
Life is luck, make it.
Life is too precious, do not destroy it.
Life is life, fight for it.”
                                                  
                                                            ― Mother Teresa

Here its given everything about the life. You just need to go along with it. Life is to be enjoyed, not endured.

Patience

Patience is the most important thing which is needed in the human beings.Patience don't mean keeping quite if something had happened but its that quality in them which makes them to understands the consequence and then take the actionin the right way.So always keep the patience the more you keep the patience the more you do the right thing so always think of doing right and that will help you to be a successful person in the society.So always keep the good qualities in you so that it makes you good and also if one becomes good then automatically the others who are in the surrounding like friends,collegues and the workers all will be able to do it. So you should always have all the good qualities in you.

Thoughts about "FRIENDSHIP"

Thoughts about friendship

1. A real friend is one who tries to keep his friends always happy by sharing the thoughts which are good to him and should keep the bad things in his heart safely.
2. A friend is one who thinks about his friend in all the different ways of reaction before saying anything.
3. A friend cannot blamed as selfish if he wants to know all his friends thoughts but does not want ti reveal his thoughts.
4. A real friend is one who can sacrifice his friendship for his friend to get a better friend then himself.
5. A friend is not one who listen and give suggestion but one who thinks himself in his situation and feels the difficulties.
6. If anyone of the two friends have the mentality to break their friendship then the friendship does not exist.
7. It’s not a mistake if there is an argument or controversy between friends but remembering it again and again is a mistake.
8. A man fights many times with two of them one is his enemy and the other is his friend. But if you become friend of him after every quarrel then it’s the real friendship.
9. Don’t make friendship as a part of study but study for yourself and make friendship for yourself.
10. If you are a friend of two enemies then you should make them friends by telling good about each other’s and keeping the bad things within yourself.
11. Don’t believe anybody, he may be your best friend but don’t believe him completely . But you may believe him more then others.
12. Don’t believe anybody because using that belief they make use of you in their work. So always see that your friendship should not be like that. You may feel free to talk to your friends but always remember that it may arise some problem or may hurt the other. So always think before you talk with him always.
13. A real friend is the one who is ready to sacrifice his friendship with others to make his other two friends together and make many happy in spite of him losing them all.
14. Always the time will be short while waiting for their loved ones but the same time will seem too much when waiting for the real friend.

U CAN'T

U CAN'T

Everyone says to keep your aim high so that it is easy to achieve but the real fact is that if you aim high then really you cannot achieve it because you think of it everytime and stop working to achieve that so always think of the lower things than your ability. If you are over confident than you cannot achieve anything in your life.

So my thought is that if anyone think that they cant do the things then should try to know why they cannot do? If he do like that then i think the work is over because if he try to know the cause with some interest then surely he will get it and in this happiness surely he will do a lot more better because he had thought that he cannot do but he have the cause now so surely he will do the things appropriately. To do this thing no one needs a proper planning because he will be in the proper way that leads him to the path of success.

Many of them gets discouraged when seeing the term " U CAN'T ". Do you know the reason why? Because they are not interested to know the cause they keep their motto as "U CAN " and some achieve but many fails because they always think that they can do any work because of their thinking. Really it is false because by thinking no one can achieve. So the person who thinks that he cant do the work if he kept it as his decision then he cannot achieve his aim but if he keep as his thinking then it is good if he as negative thinking(The new term because all say about positive thinking).

Here comes the important one negative thinking and positive thinking. For this one all give the example of a glass with half of water. then asks whether it is half filled or half empty. If said half filled then positive thinking if said half empty then it is negative thinking. And all say that positive thinking is good.But I don't think like that because there are many who says it is half empty and then they will try to know why it is half empty.