Thoughts about "FRIENDSHIP"

Thoughts about friendship

1. A real friend is one who tries to keep his friends always happy by sharing the thoughts which are good to him and should keep the bad things in his heart safely.
2. A friend is one who thinks about his friend in all the different ways of reaction before saying anything.
3. A friend cannot blamed as selfish if he wants to know all his friends thoughts but does not want ti reveal his thoughts.
4. A real friend is one who can sacrifice his friendship for his friend to get a better friend then himself.
5. A friend is not one who listen and give suggestion but one who thinks himself in his situation and feels the difficulties.
6. If anyone of the two friends have the mentality to break their friendship then the friendship does not exist.
7. It’s not a mistake if there is an argument or controversy between friends but remembering it again and again is a mistake.
8. A man fights many times with two of them one is his enemy and the other is his friend. But if you become friend of him after every quarrel then it’s the real friendship.
9. Don’t make friendship as a part of study but study for yourself and make friendship for yourself.
10. If you are a friend of two enemies then you should make them friends by telling good about each other’s and keeping the bad things within yourself.
11. Don’t believe anybody, he may be your best friend but don’t believe him completely . But you may believe him more then others.
12. Don’t believe anybody because using that belief they make use of you in their work. So always see that your friendship should not be like that. You may feel free to talk to your friends but always remember that it may arise some problem or may hurt the other. So always think before you talk with him always.
13. A real friend is the one who is ready to sacrifice his friendship with others to make his other two friends together and make many happy in spite of him losing them all.
14. Always the time will be short while waiting for their loved ones but the same time will seem too much when waiting for the real friend.

U CAN'T

U CAN'T

Everyone says to keep your aim high so that it is easy to achieve but the real fact is that if you aim high then really you cannot achieve it because you think of it everytime and stop working to achieve that so always think of the lower things than your ability. If you are over confident than you cannot achieve anything in your life.

So my thought is that if anyone think that they cant do the things then should try to know why they cannot do? If he do like that then i think the work is over because if he try to know the cause with some interest then surely he will get it and in this happiness surely he will do a lot more better because he had thought that he cannot do but he have the cause now so surely he will do the things appropriately. To do this thing no one needs a proper planning because he will be in the proper way that leads him to the path of success.

Many of them gets discouraged when seeing the term " U CAN'T ". Do you know the reason why? Because they are not interested to know the cause they keep their motto as "U CAN " and some achieve but many fails because they always think that they can do any work because of their thinking. Really it is false because by thinking no one can achieve. So the person who thinks that he cant do the work if he kept it as his decision then he cannot achieve his aim but if he keep as his thinking then it is good if he as negative thinking(The new term because all say about positive thinking).

Here comes the important one negative thinking and positive thinking. For this one all give the example of a glass with half of water. then asks whether it is half filled or half empty. If said half filled then positive thinking if said half empty then it is negative thinking. And all say that positive thinking is good.But I don't think like that because there are many who says it is half empty and then they will try to know why it is half empty.